Monogram Etiquette

Let's get real: Monograms are, in fact, a mandatory­­ element of Southern style. They make a statement. They make your statement. Monograms put a personal spin on everything from tote bags and personalized cufflinks to silverware and pocket squares.

Monograms can also be tricky. Mastering the order ("What goes in the middle?") can be complicated and downright confusing. But knowing how to present them is key to telling your personal story. And once you get it right, the options are endless on how to make them look great—and personalized for you. There are many different shapes, sizes, and weights—plus many color options.

In a Traditional Monogram for an individual, the order of initials is the first name, last name, and middle name. The last name initial (center) is larger than those on either side.

  • Men's Monogram

    The Man's Monogram is a variation of the Traditional Three-Letter Monogram. It is comprised of a man's first initial, followed by his middle initial, and finished with his last initial. In this monogram style, all three letters are the same size.

  • Couple's Monogram

    The couple's monogram is comprised of the wife's first initial on the left, couple's LAST initial in center, and the husband's first initial on the right. In this monogram style, the center initial is the largest letter.

  • Two-Letter Monogram

    The Two-Letter Monogram is comprised of an individual's first initial, followed by the individual's last initial. Both letters are the same size.

  • Single-Letter Monogram

    Traditionally, the Single-Letter Monogram is used by unmarried individuals who display their first initial in the monogram.

A family heirloom..

At Monogram Proper, we often monogram the individual's last initial because it represents the family's last name.

Customers use their family's last initial on...
-Wreath Sashes
-Bath Linens in a Powder Room or Guest Room
-Baby Heirloom Blankets & Gifts ( a great gift for a baby shower!)

Make your own!